My story

I met and thought that I was in love with two of my kids father but that clearly was not the case. We got married when i was 19 and shortly after that came the kids. Any way when I look back I now know that the signs where all around me i was just in denial about it. I cant even say when it first started because we never know that part. My first mistake was marrying him after certain family members told me not too. When ever that happen make sure you wait no matter how much you think that you love someone. Then there were times where the phone would ring and he would either not answer or go outside. After a while i had people telling me different things but we women never listen we always find out the hard way. His favorite line was that he was going night fishing. ( Oh yeah he was really night fishing between somebodies legs ) So I started listening to my gut feeling and started checking phone logs. I'm pretty sure everybody has heard the saying( be careful what your looking for you might just find something that you don't want to know) Well that was my case. I searched until I found what I didn't want to find. Even after that he still denied it and I still believed him and stayed with him like nothing was wrong. The next thing was finding his car behind a females house. Yet that still wasn't enough. Then one night he had got so drunk that he ended up telling me that he was cheating and that the girl was pregnant. Even though she didn't have the baby it was still the principal of it. After that this chick started getting brave and started sending flowers to my house. Then you know that we have problems then. To make a long story short because I can go on all day about the many things that happen. As a woman there's only so much that you are going to take from a man. Stand strong and never let a man treat you less then what you are. Enough is enough and when a woman id fed up it makes it so much easier to leave that man. The things that he done to me caused me lots of hurt and pain. i can talk about it today because i waited for that right man to come in my life. Now that hes here I now know the true meaning of real love.

I just wanted to share some of my story of a cheating partner. If there's anybody that know my pain then you know that it's not a good feeling. Please feel free to leave any comments or Questions.